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		<title>It&#8217;s not about me</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 14:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Randell Tiongson</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[efren cruz]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I did something new today and last Sunday. I am a public speaker and trainer but I was given a new challenge – instead of being the trainer or speaker, I became a host and a moderator. When I was &#8230; <a href="http://www.randelltiongson.com/its-not-about-me/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did something new today and last Sunday. I am a public speaker and trainer but I was given a new challenge – instead of being the trainer or speaker, I became a host and a moderator.</p>
<p>When I was offered a job to be such, I wasn’t too sure if I was the right person for the job and really gave the offer a lot of thinking. I was used to being introduced and being guided by moderators but being on the other side of the fence made me think twice. Why? I was not sure if I was the right person for the job. I accepted the job because it was difficult to say no to my friend who organized the program (Tom Gotuaco) and I will be moderating for three of my most respected colleagues (Efren Cruz, Suzan Bigay and Melvin Esteban).</p>
<p>It was a good thing that I took the challenge because I really enjoyed the ‘new’ challenge. It is a great feeling making other people look good, redirecting attention away from you and towards others. I am not sure if I did a good job but I definitely enjoyed it.</p>
<p>Some take-away lessons for me:</p>
<p><em>1)      I may think that I am good at what I do but in reality, there are people who are really much better and they deserve the spotlight, or the stage;</em></p>
<p><em>2)      Just like in life, everyone has an important role;</em></p>
<p><em>3)      Making other people look good is not only a humbling experience, there must be sincerity in it; and</em></p>
<p><em>4)      Challenges are meant to be met, not feared.</em></p>
<p>This activity is also a good reminder about our purpose in life. Your purpose is never about you and will always be bigger than yourself; and whenever there is an opportunity, redirect whatever glory there is away from you and towards God – He is the only  one who is worthy of any glory.</p>
<p>If ever I will be offered a job as a moderator and host, I will not think twice anymore.</p>
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